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Virginity Dilemma

Zindl asks:

I best start at the beginning.... Back in 2007, my doctor wanted to find out why i was having heavy periods. I had an ultrasound and the nurse thought that she had found something in the lining of the neck of my womb.About a month later, i had to undergo some sort of surgery to see if there was anything there (i had a suspected polyp.) Results came back all clear....But that it not what i am on here about... I am left with... a moral dilemma (its a dilemma for me) I haven't had a partner ( if you know what i mean) ever. Obviously in the medical sense... i'm not a virgin... But man wise... I am a virgin...What am i? I'm so confused... What do i say to a future partner? If i say i'm a virgin... and... we have sex... and whatever happens to virgin when she loses it doesn't happen, he is gonna feel that i mislead him and will hurt him...I just need some advice Thanks

Yin's Answer

Zindi Hi This is any easy question to answer in reality, athough your hymen may have been broken during the medical procedure there is no doubt you are a virgin.

In many cases when a girl loses her virginity for the first time there is no bleeding, in reality most hymen will have been broken during activities such as gynastics or horse riding.

You are a virgin so stop worrying

Yang's Answer

Zindi I agree, you are too young to be worrying about this I think too much is put on being a virgin ask yourself how many guys are virgins when they settle down in a relationship.

You are a virgin I hope this is of help to you

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